I can be arrogant and unfriendly, but also friendly and approachable. And that doesn’t mean I have two sides, but each situation provokes a different reaction.
I’ve said many times (and I ratify) that is not too fortunate behaving maintaining a pose, but being as we really are, balancing our duality naturally.
Obviously, if your submission is just a pose, the truth will come out sooner rather than later, just as it will if you don’t feel and enjoy Domination.
I don’t deprive myself of showing affection, if that’s what I feel at some point, because I don’t need others see how Cruel I am (that privilege/torment is reserved for a few) nor reply arrogantly seeking the applause of those who are around. At this point in my life, I need not to live demonstrating, just live what I am and behave the way I am.
It’s much more rewarding to be consistent with oneself than to please the crowd in exchange for fake smiles. I am a Dominant, not a clown.
But I can also add that if I want to make a public humiliation to one of my slaves, for example, I do not care about the faces of disapproval when his tears seek empathy of those who applaud a stupidity 